Lunchboxes are often found in Lost and Found. The empty ones are OK. Finding a child lunchbox with leftover tuna fish sandwich and chocolate milk after three weeks is not a pleasant experience. The second possibility is that what you did wrong is so glaringly obvious (to her) that she realizes she has entered into a relationship with a man who cannot grasp a person’s most basic needs without being given a laminated chart every day. She is envisioning a lifetime of constantly giving explanations